Youse Are All Bitches!

after recent discussions with various members of various forums, i have come to the conclusion that there is one forum that is FULL of bitches. im not talking disagreeing with your opinion bitchy. im talking internet stalking, emotionally involving themselves in your life, crazy bitchy. right down to the administrators and moderators even.

i was a member there for about a year, and it was just too much, i had to leave. it is such a moderated forum, and moderation goes in your favour if you are a paid member, or if you stick your head far enough up the moderators arses.

if you happen to be a member of this very purple forum, watch out! this is my official warning-
you will get stalked in every aspects of your internet life, and it may even seep into your real life.
you will have private facebook groups made about you where members can, and will, bitch about you, screen shot everything you do, and pick your whole life apart.
you will be bullied and backstabbed.
you will NOT make one true friend on there.

one thing i have noticed about the regular members of this forum, is that they are all fucked up in some way. mental illnesses, single parents, and just generally fucked up lives. karma- suck it up bitches.

its no wonder why they are all so crazy, and stalk, bully and harass normal people. their lives are so fucked up, they want to make themselves feel better. poor diddums, facing reality is hard, is it not? living in the real world is hard? poor, precious princesses. life really owes you, does it not?

i would like to say, i have nothing against all single mothers, but in the single mothers i have seen on this particular forum i do not blame the males for leaving. these single parents are needy, psychotic, entitled bitches. i wouldnt partner with them for a million dollars, nope, never!!!!!

i could go on forever, but no doubt you have got the picture, so ill stop right here. i will undoubtedly post about this forum and more of its horrors again, so stay tuned!

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Perfect Parenting?

you see it all the time - mothers accusing other mothers of being the perfect parent. you would think it would be a compliment, but it is not. it is meant as an insult.

i actually laugh when I see the term ‘perfect parent’ come up. why? because is there such a thing as a perfect parent? yes and no. yes, coz most parents are doing the best they can, and are the perfect parent for child. no, coz not one parenting style is the best.

i dont see any one claiming to be the prefect mother. i also dont believe that mothers believe they are above every one else. the simple fact is, they parent differently, have different opinions and more than likely are discussing (or debating) their parenting choice.

so what IS a perfect parent? a perfect parent is described simply as the mother who parents differently to other mothers. when does it get used? when a mother feels threatened by another mother, or is doubting her own parenting style.

basically any mother who involves herself fully and gives herself 100 percent in all or MOST aspects of her childrens life is considered a perfect parent. if she cooks all her baby's food from scratch and never gives it junk food, for instance, she is considered a perfect parent. if her children never watch television and are instead doing educational and hands on stuff instead, she is a perfect parent.

is she a perfect parent? no more than the next mother is.

i personally think it is a bit of jealousy, guilt and self doubt, but thats just me.

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